I just received this very interesting link from one of my colleagues. It describes the "Satir Model", a model for change management described by Virginia Satir, a family therapist. Her findings can also be used to explain and understand what a group or team goes through when facing drastic change. I very much like the way that it acknowledges that change affects every aspect of our lives: The way we think, feel, our physical performance and much more.
I could relate to every stage described in the post as we go through exactly the same stages at the moment. What impressed me most were the following findings:
- We cannot shortcut change. We have to go through all stages to end up in a better place
- The way to "better" leads through "chaos". It's calming to know that this is normal
- Resistance is a normal part of change
- Eventually, everything will be fine. I really believe that.